Reply each statement with: Always/Sometimes/Never. First complete then scroll down to see the analysis.
1. It's
easy for you to begin a talk among strangers.
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2. When you have something to say, people listen
to you.
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3. It is not difficult for you to present your
thoughts before a group.
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4. You don't rush
with your words; people are able to digest your thoughts well.
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5. You give full
attention to the speaker on the telephone.
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6. You keep
yourself informed on what's happening in the world.
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7. You list your
thoughts before a public speech.
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8. You summarize
your thoughts before ending.
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9. You are able to remember important dates and
people you meet.
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10. You add a touch of humor where possible in
your conversation.
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Inference: Always- 3
points, Sometimes-2 points & Never-1 point
Ratings: Some up the total score & check where you fall.
10 – 14: You need to overcome your shyness by
interacting freely with others.
15 – 24: You are able
to express yourself and people lend you an ear. Maintain your skills, but there
is still room for improvement.
25 – 30: You are
adept at the art of conversation. Be your natural self and try to help others
hog the limelight too.
In almost every aspect of our life or in a relationship,
effective communication is needed. Given the importance of communication skills
in both the personal and the corporate world, any individual who want to make
progress with their life should develop this important skill.
Andy Fiffick is an excellent conversationalist. Here
are few of the things that make for any good conversation. Andy did all
of them.
- Take the initiative. Introduce yourself and shake hands.
- Get the other person speaking. Ask something about the other person.
- Open up to the other person. Offer some information about yourself.
- Be enthusiastic. Let your passion for who you are and what you do show through.
- Be open to learning about the other person. Ask questions, listen, show you understand.
- Engage in a give and take. Don’t dominate the discussion, but don’t make the other person do all the work.
- Be willing to offer help, if appropriate.
